Notices by problematic mom (untangledrose@mastodon.starrevolution.org)

Some of the worst that really got me:
“I have this sense I’m fat and I shouldn’t be,” he says. “It feels like the worst kind of weakness.”

A 2017 survey found that 89 percent of obese adults had been bullied by their romantic partners. Emily, the counselor, says she spent her teens and 20s “sleeping with guys I wasn’t interested in because they wanted to sleep with me.” In her head, a guy being into her was a rare and depletable resource she couldn’t afford to waste: “I was desperate for men to give me attention. Sex was a good way to do that.”

He told her during sex that her body was beautiful and then, in the daylight, that it was revolting. “Whenever I tried to leave him, he would say, ‘Where are you gonna find someone who will put up with your disgusting body?’” she remembers.

Emily finally managed to get away from him, but she is aware that her love life will always be fraught.

This piece fucking killed me at times. It was painful to read and so much of it I have felt hard a lot of the time.
https://highline.huffingtonpost.com/articles/en/everything-you-know-about-obesity-is-wrong/

Like, people wanna lie and say @Laurelai is an abuser meanwhile there are people that are threatening to kill her, a good portion of them cis men and ya'll just really gonna let that stand huh?

Like people seem to think this is okay. So like if you think the bofa people are good you should get fucked.

Some Rando Calrissian getting mad at me because I wouldn't be nice while he was harassing my girlfriend is the funniest shit. Also he got mad at someone for blocking him and then replying to the thread and then he did it to me.

Just admit you are an asshole and move one, preferably to a cave where no one hears from you again.

Hey, hey....psst...yes you. Did you know @Laurelai has lies spread about her and you should stop believing those lies and spreading them or you are a bad person participating in harassment full stop.

@Laurelai Who the fuck got attacked this time? And I see leftists are involved, why am I not shocked?

Oh because I called them either being in bed with Kiwi or having been infiltrated so they could be manipulated.

@Laurelai People just let shit happen like this....like what the fuck?

It also continues and furthers the abuse. Not only did they themselves personally hurt you, they can now employ others to do so by cutting you off from support and community.

To play off those last toots I boosted. I have seen callouts weaponized by abusers enough and had it done to me that I have hit a point of no longer trusting almost anything.

Abusers figured out real quick they could use it to ostracize and push their victims out and under the rug. Good way to make the people you hurt disappear.

Hey @Laurelai is innocent and people have been spreading lies about her for years and in plenty of cases from people that are known harassers and abusers yet you believe them.

Ya'll come after her harder then anyone else, you ever wonder why that is? You ever wonder why these people always seem to dog her? You know who does that? Abusive people trying to silence their victim.

Maybe instead of pushing a trans person so far out they can't live based on slander you could actually do something about people that are a threat, but you wont because that is hard and pushing a trans person around to make her go away is far easier then actually doing something about fascism and injustice.

Food I made yesterday. I had leftover buttermilk biscuits so I made breakfast sandwiches out of them. I also made chicken kababs and rice pilaf. I bought the lavash because I was too busy to make some.

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/KaSo9adGZzVRz5lRtLQ

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/3w3aUsf11xK2sRZPZUU

What a difference a year makes. Thanks to facebook for showing me the first pic as a memory so I could snap a pic from today and see the difference.

Hey, transition is expensive, maybe help out and throw some money this girls way.

https://ko-fi.com/W7W7770M

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/fdCeBdCIdT23o2c8n8Q

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/FvLX4gcnH4D5fyc-Fqg

Hey, I could use some nice things, maybe some cute images, or just to hear something nice.

Hey, if you wanna help a girl and her partner out that are currently going paycheck to paycheck you can throw some money at use here.
https://ko-fi.com/W7W7770M

Oh, since I'm not on birdsite with this account.
Punch Nazis
TERFs are Nazis too
So in conclusion
Punch TERFs

Selfies because....well why not everybodies doing it.

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/j9PddhBoXlmI2x1rFL8

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/u9m0-a9XWk5dt7VMQ5g

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/uP-av1EGhyyvQTw8tRg

https://mastodon.starrevolution.org/media/SdInAExWrM2xZ89BG8g

So, here we have cyberpunk2077 the game using transphobic memes. Also my dev account calling it out.
https://twitter.com/Gamedev_Rose/status/1031940438712668161

I have a ko-fi if you ever feel like throwing money at me. You know transition is expensive so help a girl out if you can.
ko-fi.com/W7W7770M