Are you interested in #SelfHosting or #CommunityHosting to help you and your friends/family regain control of your data?
There are many projects trying to make it easier and cheaper to store data on low-cost low-power computers such as the #RaspberryPi or #BeagleBoneBlack :
@freedomboxfndn
https://www.freedombox.org/
@yunohost
https://yunohost.org
and also a good thread about this topic:
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