Like, this is some general life advice okay? There is literally NEVER going to be a moment where they all love you. It's not happening, you can break yourself into a million pieces trying and then all you're left with is a million pieces you have to pick up.
Don't EVER let other people's opinion of you define who you are. They don't know shit about you.
This is especially important "online" where ever fuckwit rando alive got an opinion...