@bryan There are a lot of sad folks on the internet for sundry grounds, most go deeper to find a harbor from happy folks (Susan and Mark often stick to Faceberg and Candy Crush) so they can wallow in their self pity. They end up here. Then in an attempt to become happy they try to become what they wanted from the outside world(cute and kind wife) instead of becoming what would attract that. TL;DR: Sad folks misdiagnosing themselves and trying to heal themselves in one of the worst ways possible.