Things that don’t make me feel safe on masto: Seeing the encouragement, boosting, and promotion of abusive users and the instances they fester in.
Things that do make me feel safe: Seeing a toxic guy run away from the fediverse because he didn’t like people confronting him about abusive garbage he publicly promotes.
The cries for not being mean to people like that sound so hollow when actual nice people like Ginny get regular harassment that’s encouraged by instance owners.