Some trans people are men. Some are women. Some are neither.
Some trans people have known since they were kids. Some figured it out in their 80s.
Some trans people have been on hormone replacement therapy for years. Some can't get on HRT. Some don't want to be on HRT.
Some trans people try to "pass". Some don't.
Some trans people have had surgery. Some don't want surgery. Some can't get surgery.
All trans people are valid, regardless of any of the above. :trans_heart: