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1. winter (velartrill@pleroma.site)'s status on Saturday, 02-Mar-2019 19:05:31 UTC winter

   • winter
   when people say things like "fuck cis people," IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE IMMATURE, SELF-CENTERED, AND HAVE ANGER PROBLEMS. IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE TOXIC PEOPLE AND YOU SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM THEM.
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   • winter (velartrill@pleroma.site)'s status on Saturday, 02-Mar-2019 19:17:22 UTC winter

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     "kill all men" "fuck cis people" "neurotypicals aren't human" these are what we call MICROAGGRESSIONS. you might be familiar with the term.
     
     when people spend all their time ranting about people like you deserve to die because you're intrinsically evil and biologically subhuman and nothing you do will ever change that because you were predetermined an Oppressor from the moment you were born, and scream at you about how you're oppressing them whenever you ask them to stop saying violent and cruel things, it is because they are SHITTY FUCKING PEOPLE.
     
     the appalling lack of empathy a fuckton of queer people (and trans women in particular, i've noticed) display for cis and/or het ppl, all while feeling entitled to their attention, support, time, money, and obedience drives me up the fucking wall. it is arrogant, selfish, borderline sociopathic, and abusive as all hell. if you treat people this way, you are a BAD FUCKING PERSON and you need to FIX YOUR SHIT.
     
     if you are among the classes of people targeted by this abusive behavior and you try to rationalize and justify it, you are engaging in cognitive self-harm. you are making excuses for your abusers and permitting them to define your reality. and when you try to propagate your rationalizations to others, you drag them down with you. stop letting abusers recruit you. stop telling yourself these things are okay. you deserve better than this. so do the people you try to involve in your complex of self-hate.
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