@toadstoolfuel Patriarchy hurts everyone, some ways more obviously than others. Some filks benefit from it a but, but they're still hindered by it.
Of course this is easy for me to say as a cis-presenting WM with ALL THE PRIVILEGES so I spend a non-trivial amount of my waking hours trying to elevate others and understanding my own hubris.
But yeah I'm still kinda terrible at not being Teh Enemy. Do yo best, keep on trying. S'about all I know how to be.