When people show double standards about ethical issues (Person A goes out with the garbage because of X behavior but Person B also engages in X behavior and is still “in”)... it just shows me that your outrage over behavior X is not genuine. You are using it as justification to make an outcast of Person A, but not Person B. Therefore you have ulterior motives that are really driving your vilification of Person A and you really don’t give a shit about behavior X.