It is not about the words but about the level of interest. People who have no interest in technology will not see such essays as nuanced discussions but as lists of warning signs. They may wonder why they are even trying the fediverse when it is so full of risks.
By the way, as far as I know there are no managed hosting services for Friendica?
Non-managed hosting is *way* beyond the scope of switching.social, it requires far too much technical knowledge.