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1. Laurelai Bailey (laurelai@mastodon.starrevolution.org)'s status on Tuesday, 23-Jul-2019 20:19:42 UTC Laurelai Bailey

   One of the good things about the relationship i have with my partner that i live with is that we can both sit there doing our own thing and be perfectly fine.

   If you cant do your own thing in a relationship, get out. Seriously. its a huge red flag if they want to do literally everything with you and wont let you have your own life. I never realized how toxic it was until i lived with with this person and saw how healthy it was to have my own space.

   • Laurelai Bailey (laurelai@mastodon.starrevolution.org)'s status on Tuesday, 23-Jul-2019 20:23:18 UTC Laurelai Bailey

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     A number of things honestly i discovered were toxic in relationships because they dont do them and i feel better with them than with others ive lived with. It took having a good partner to see how bad the bad ones were.

   • Laurelai Bailey (laurelai@mastodon.starrevolution.org)'s status on Tuesday, 23-Jul-2019 20:27:50 UTC Laurelai Bailey

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     Also i can be absolutely rediculus with them. If you cant be absurd together whats the point