Installing your own web server on a VPS and managing it via a web interface (say, for something like a fediverse node) *should* be absurdly easy. It should be just as easy as buying an "app".
I think my generation really let the next generation down by either rallying around centralized services or gatekeeping around CLI Unix arcana, with no middle ground.
I'm sorry for every time I made fun of phpMyAdmin. I should've been working to make something better instead.