@sageofredondo Sorry to hear that. I'm assuming you are wanting to use XFCE on an older machine?
Have you looked at #KDE ? You are probably well aware that it's not as resource hungry as lot of people imagine. I've seen some comparisons with #XFCE and they seem to have similar memory usuage.
I've found #Fedora #KDE to be a good #KDE distro and it appears the #Wayland issue may have been sorted out.